Where does love go when external conditions changes?

 

True love has no opposite. If you love you cannot hate and vice versa. It is independent of external happenings, conditions, situations, decisions, people. If you have love you cannot do wrong, cannot act violently, out of your mind, you don’t blame, don’t blackmail emotionally, don’t get jealous or greedy but behave more calmly, responsibly, with wisdom, honesty and loyalty, acceptance of what you cannot change than to resist. Your love remain always with you irrespective of external conditions and phenomenon, it doesn’t depend upon people, bodies, theories and ideologies. It makes you strong to bear the losses, act with maturity, independently. There exist no give and take system in love, you do whatever you can without expectorations of similar treatment or rewards. Your happiness lies in the happiness of the one you love, you accept unconditionally his choices, decisions, likes and dislikes and help him in coming out of problems without getting himself disturbed or unstable.

In true relationships you act responsibly and rationally rather than emotionally because emotions are result of selfish unfulfillment and it blocks our mental reasoning ability and we start seeing the things through a single lens which is irrational. It is not possible that you love someone when he acts according to you and hate when he doesn’t act according to you, it is not love, it is more a business deal with conditions, benefits, agreements. Love is a beautiful experience and a state of mind in which you are free, independent, open, simple and stable, no ownership, care with consciousness. When you are in love, you love everything nature, birds, trees, rains, summers, winters, loneliness, companies etc. for it cannot be exclusive and selective. You accept the things by keeping yourself detached yet concerned without getting dissatisfied or disappointed.

Without being responsible, contented, calm, stable, rational, independent, wise etc. you cannot be in a relationship called love or friendship. And the fact is that “love is not easy”.what we see around ourselves are the romantic relationships, drowned in dependencies, addictions, needs, incompleteness, hollowness, result of fashions and trends, longings and permanence.

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