Securing our ego on the name of the so called “mood swings”.

Human beings are often controlled and enslaved by the egoistic and insecure self which dwell in either future or the non-senses of the past. But, at sometimes human being become conscious too and can experience the happiness also. But sometimes when our mind overcome the reasoning power of our brain, and we come under the full influence of dilapidated self, we lose connection with ourselves, we get lost in the ocean of false time i.e., past or future.

We think that everything around ourselves is different from ourselves, and we have nothing to do with anyone. Then everything look alien to us as if only “I” is important, and the rest is useless. This is pure “ego” which try to satisfy itself all and if not, it becomes insecure. This state of complete overhaul of the mind is common with many a people, isn’t it a dangerous exercise? Indeed, it is. But people say that it is “mood swings” as many addict people defy their addictive habits.

There is a sadness and sorrow in ego and self, for they always remain insecure of their existence, and they always try to push you either in past or future, can make you lost in the memories of the past, unfulfilled desires of the past and insecurities of the future. And ironically, people also enjoy this nonsense, they become angry and can fight with others also.

On the contrary, if you are simply observing that what is happening inside yourself, what is making you insecure and sad, what are the root causes of sorrows? Very easily the ego can be dissolved before it pulls you into the past or future. When we see communion with everything around ourselves, we see a connection with everything, then nothing is alien, everything is you and you are everything. Here ego disappears, the love and affection can flourish and flower of compassion blooms.

Life is precious, and we have a very little time in our hands, we cannot afford to waste it for nonsenses of pasts and other people who have nothing to do with our lives. Let us live it fully, with what you have and with what you are at the present moment of time.

Or waste your energy and time, aggrieve yourself, ignore others and humiliate them to save your ego and say “you see these are just a mood swings” without knowing who swing your moods and who is driving you?

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