The race with no target or aim

Human relationships in todays world are not more than choosing and buying vegetables from a stall, all vegetable looks colorful and push you in the illusion of choosing and not-choosing. What you do, for the time being you chose some but you are not satisfied, so you keep searching and changing choices as per your conveniences as the market has a lot of choices, then with time, things grew old and then you go in the search of new one and this goes on further. 

It looks that these days humans in the relations are not more than mere “objects”, you like and keep them with you if they are meeting your demands, and you abandon otherwise. Seeing all this happening around, it is very difficult to find true relationships which are humane, driven by unconditional love, trust and truth, stability and satisfaction, care and affection, acceptance, the realization of completeness. We have made the human  relationships just loss and benefits statements, showy, fake, an opportunity to fulfil the greed, a status symbols etc. 

Then we complain that the world is full of bad people, but we never question that we too have a role in the creation of this bad world and bad people. Have we ever questioned ourselves that what we seek from others? Do we have those qualities which we wish to see in others? Do we have the purity of thoughts? Do we respect the feelings and inter-personal emotions of others?

Perhaps, we don’t question and keep running in the search of a best one without knowing the very definition of the “best” that is why with time, “best become test”. I often remain confused and could not convince myself about these human relationships, illusionary claims and conflicts.

Ultimately human greed has no limit and is one of the most important reason of developing such kind of system. The need of the time is to understand yourself, the theories behind your likes and dislikes, rejections and acceptance, conflicts and fights as well. Otherwise it will be very difficult to trust one another, to enjoy the richness of human relationships, the co-existence and ultimately the potential of humane and true relationships. After all, we are human beings and being true to oneself and to others does hold some value.

                                                                                                      Inspired by events.